*tldr; we are being kicked out by january 1st because of my transition, and i could use help with costs. although i am in an ok place financially, i am trying to avoid going into debt while also moving out as fast as possible.
hello! my name is dimitri, iโm a 23 yo transman and i live with the love of my life! my partner is 21 years old and nonbinary! i moved in with them about 2 years ago to help take care of them, since their family was not buying them enough food.
my only wish is to get them out of this abusive, disgusting, and neglectful home.
i finally have a good enough credit score and job to afford a home (a mortgage is cheaper than rent where i live), and i am currently approved and working with a realtor! however, things took a turn when my transition caused my voice to change much, much faster than anticipated. my voice changed within the first month, and their transphobic mother now wants us out by january 1st.
she told them that it was disrespectful for me to transition in her christian home, and irresponsible for me to waste money for moving out on hrt, and did not believe them when they said how cheap it is on insurance.
though i was already planning to move out for their sake, this house has taken a toll on my mental health, and worsened my ptsd. there are far more issues than the transphobia, and the only threat to us isnโt just their mother. i want to keep this brief though.
any donations i recieve will be used for the following, in order from most to least urgent:
down payment, closing costs, moving fees.
paying off the small remainder of my credit cards so we can focus on utilities and the mortgage.
furniture, appliances, and other home goods
and last but not least, any remaining donations (if i get this far) will be put into savings for my top surgery as a final fuck you to transphobes everywhere!
of course, do not feel pressured to donate and only give if you can! boosting is just as helpful, make sure your needs are covered first! ๐ฅฐ
paypal.me/swampert
Posted: 10 months ago on October 05, 2020 at 15:16
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